Q. (See question 2014 above). Would it be recommended that if the name given to an institution, was given “Leilui Nishmas” of one of his relatives, the donor should agree that at least those names, without any surnames, so anonymity is kept, should be maintained? Would removing their names be considered a prohibited dishonor to their neshamos?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller’s shlit’a opinion is that indeed one should not remove the names of the neshomos that were and are being honored, especially if they are parents or others that one is obliged to honor.
Rabbi A. Bartfeld as revised by Horav Shlomo Miller Shlit’a