– Q. See question above. In general when we do have a number of people who want to give a kiddush to honor a dear departed one, is it better to give it all together if possible and to make it greater and more beautiful seuda, or to do them separately and in a way the honor to the departed neshama is special and unique. what is better?

A. As mentioned in question above Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlita opinion is that it is better to serve the kidushim together if possible and to make it a greater and more beautiful seuda.

It also shows and openly displays the Achdus and togetherness of the many and this is a true great contribution to the brocho and thankful recognition given to the neshomos of our forefathers.

Rabbi A. Bartfeld as revised by Horav Yaakov Hirschman, Horav Dovid Pam, Horav Aharon Miller, Horav Chanoch Ehrentreu and Horav Kalman Ochs Shlit’a.