Q. When I come (to shul to be) from the Assara Rishonim there is a person who comes and tells me Lashon Hara and disturbs my learning. Is it better to come later, since If I refuse to listen to him he will get offended and he is lonely with no family.
A. Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that you should explain to him carefully and nicely the terrible sins involved when speaking Lashon Horaa and engaging in Bitul Torah.
In addition, you may offer him to learn a bit with him at that time.
Rabbi A. Bartfeld as advised by Horav Shlomo Miller and Horav Aharon Miller Shlit’a