Q. A man is ill and has to eat on Tisha Beav. As Halacha requires he will say Havdalah before he eats. Should his healthy wife listen to the Havdalah then as always or should she make her own on Sunday night before she eats?
How about in the reverse case. Should the fasting husband say Havdalah for his ill wife on Motzei Shabbat, or should she make her own and the husband will say it at the end of the Taanit, on Sunday night?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that in both cases the wife should recite her own Havdalah.
Rabbi A. Bartfeld as advised by Horav Shlomo Miller and Horav Aharon Miller Shlit’a